No sex please, just cutesy flirting and strawberries for China’s online hostesses

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In China’s online hostessing world, men find virtual and women can find riches.

Student Xiao Yue, 21, spends four hours most days chatting online with fans who shower her with virtual roses and other presents.

She is of more than 10,000 hostesses on internet site, a live broadcasting web platform where anyone can record themselves singing, playing piano, dancing or just chatting.

hostesses are predominantly singers, playing to an audience that is 90 percent male, and mostly between ages of 20 and 35. Acting cute is okay. Anything explicitly sexual is not.

Xiao Yue’s specialty is to sajiao – a very Chinese type of flirting characterized by the acting in a cutesy childlike manner and speaking in a whiny voice. She puts on little dance mime routines minute, seductively eats strawberries the next.

In return, users show their appreciation by sending her virtual gifts, which can be worth as much as thousands of yuan.[pro_ad_display_adzone id=”10″]

She admits many who have not used the service find it hard to understand.

“We don’t know each other but as time goes on, there’s this indescribable feeling. They really support you, and their support improves your self-esteem… Perhaps people who don’t normally use this service won’t be able to understand the feeling.”

For Zhu Peihua, who says he doesn’t have enough money to get a girlfriend, it’s all about companionship.

“After finishing , except for watching TV, films or just lying in bed, playing computer games and so on, there isn’t a real person talking to you. But with this… this is a real person. You can interact with them. I have some who will talk to me.”


Xiao Yue makes anything between a few thousand and more than ten thousand yuan ($1,600) a month getting users like Zhu to send the gifts. That pales in comparison with the more than a yuan ($161,400) given to one hostess on the platform – a record so far.

Xiao Yue says most of her friends don’t know about her , as in the eyes of many the sites are dominated by borderline erotic content. But following a series of anti-pornography crackdowns over the past few years, many hostess services have cleaned up their acts.

One hostess, Xianggong, relaxed with her mother after a live broadcast in her Beijing bedroom.

“We have very strict rules for the users. We have very clear rules about what you can do and what you cannot do,” said Zuo Ming, head of operations at

In there are about 50 internet companies in China running chat services. The platforms typically take between 50 and 70 percent of the money donated by users.

For some fans, what can start as a diversion can turn into an obsession.

Wang Dong, 32, began watching the broadcasts when he started working for bobo as a graphic designer. He said the content left him cold at first, but he soon found himself infatuated with one hostess.

“She had such a sweet smile… Every now and again she had this kind of feeling of sincerity, so I began watching her broadcasts every day.”

Wang became so obsessed, he began using his spare time to design personalized virtual gifts for her. He even helped her a professional and got to meet her in real life, but a non-virtual relationship never blossomed.

“We’re in contact occasionally… But I’m not as obsessed. Perhaps it’s because I feel reality is better after all.”

(Additional reporting by Jason Lee; Editing by Nick Macfie)(Reuters)