Fidelity in a relationship doesn’t mean much to him. It is not because of any moral lapse or an inability to offer commitment to the woman he has decided to call his own.
Dave has his own unique definition of fidelity and infidelity. He believes that what the heart doesn’t know doesn’t hurt it. He loves his woman and expresses that love by caring, providing and giving her as much of his time and resources as possible. Only a small portion of his heart is devoted to womanising. And he does that as discrete as possible with a lot of common sense.
“Been discrete with a lot of common sense” simply means he makes love without a condom only with his wife. Common sense, to him, also means that for every amount he spends outside with another woman he is sure to spend more than that on “his woman.” He makes sure he’s discrete enough to keep his tryst away from his woman.
A good and responsible man doesn’t hurt women let alone hurting the woman he has made up his mind to remain committed to. But a good woman should also know her boundaries in a relationship. To avoid been hurt she shouldn’t snoop on her man.
When women speak about infidelity as betrayal, to Dave that has always sounded like Greek. A woman’s physical attribute and the male inclination to conquer and dominate has been his only motive for affairs.
Not even sex, though that was the goal in all his extra-marital tryst. But he wasn’t pushed by sexual hunger in particular. The desire to experience another woman yes, but never because he was starved of sex.
The first day Mama Job visited Linda, Dave wanted to have sex with her. A widow, Mama Job is his wife’s colleague at work. She stood at over six feet tall with a certain grace that belies her age. It wasn’t her figure that got him, it was how homely she looked, and the curiosity about how she copes as a widow since she look too decent for tryst at her age.
Mama Job played the game according to her own rules. After about six months of gifts and visits she remained adamant and politely declined to have a sexual relationship with him.
And so he was taken aback when his wife told him that Mama Job requested that he come to her place to help with some light fittings that where malfunctioning.
For a woman of over 50, she has a body that looks nice and sexy for her age. The sex was slow and gentle as she took charge. Unlike a much more younger woman she wasn’t ashamed of instructing him on how she wanted it while clinging tightly to him probably to stop him from trusting too hard. Her ample bossom was cradling his chest as he chew on her long well formed nipples. Such was her expertise that she was able to regulate his orgasm to happen simultaneously with hers.
Though he felt a bit guilty about an experience he can’t ever share with Linda, that was where it ended. For what’s life if a man can’t have a little adventure once in a while, especially when it doesn’t hurt anybody else.
What the heart doesn’t know doesn’t bother it.
He won’t ever go out of his way to hurt his wife by making his tryst obvious. He will never have a secret mistress or father any children outside his marriage or spend time and resources on any woman outside to the detriment of his wife and children.
What’s life without an occasional tryst and adventure especially if it involves bringing a little sunshine to the life of a lonely widow.
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