By Tracy Nma Ajuzie
Many women are suffering from vaginal dryness and some have even concluded that they don’t like sex since all sex does is cause them to experience soreness and pain. Little do they know that their problem is caused by no other thing besides vaginal dryness.
Vaginal dryness is the inability of the vagina to be aroused orbecome wet during foreplay/romance or sex because the vaginal tissues have become thin thereby making the vaginal to lose its elasticity and ability to produce wetness.
Usually, the vaginal tissues are self-lubricating, which enables comfortable penetration and during intercourse but dryness can make this process difficult and even painful to both partners. This results in soreness for both partners and this can make the woman experience painful sex. This can make her shy away from sex, leaving her partner frustrated and if this continues, it could make the man to start looking elsewhere for sexual satisfaction.
Common Causes of Vaginal Dryness
- Not enough foreplay before sex
- If you are on cold medication
- If you are on birth control pills
- Just giving birth and breastfeeding
- Reaction to a soap
- Reaction to a lubricant or condom, among others.
Effects of Vaginal Dryness In Relationships
Sex is supposed to be an expression of intimacy, care, and love but vaginal dryness can put a wedge in-between partners.
The discomfort that vaginal dryness can bring to the bedroom if not dealt with can lead to:
* Obstruction to sex life;
* Feelings of emotional distance between a couple;
*Hostility, frustration and even lack of trust especially on the man’s part if he doesn’t really understand why she avoids him.
*Lower self-esteem issues for both partners especially the woman.
*Impact on both partners’ enjoyment of sex or make the idea of sexual intercourse seem not appealing, resulting ultimately in a loss of interest from both partners.
*This can make a woman suffering with the symptom, feel less feminine, self-conscious, or embarrassed.
*For the man lack of awareness about the biological reason for dryness may make him assume the symptom itself or the change in the woman’s behavior is reflective of a change in feelings towards him or his sexual performance or that the woman is seeing someone else.
For women, vaginal lubrication is an important part of sexual arousal. It prepares the vagina for penetration, making it easier for the penis to enter and reducing any accompanying friction or irritation. Pain during intercourse is often caused by inadequate lubrication.
Lubrication usually occurs naturally, but some women don’t get well lubricated.
?? There are variances in the viscosity and composition of the vaginal fluids, and even the speed and volume of flow.
??Some women’s fluids are like a continuous bounty of rich honey, while some are dilute watery.
??A man prefers the woman whose vagina is abundantly juicy and creamy, one that is not lose and tends to rhythmically grasp the penis, and give him continuous estacy. That is a feeling of optimal euphoria and paradise.
?? Reason why men stray from woman to woman is precisely that vaginas are not the same in quality and enjoyment.
??General idea is that the vagina of a younger woman is tighter, juicy and more enjoyable although not true. But you still come across older women who remain tight and juicy, and have those audible responses that continuously turn a man on.
?? Ladies, men are generally not open people especially if they love you they won’t tell you they are not enjoying you or they don’t like certain things it is when you now do something about it that you will see them praise you.
?? So ladies don’t lie to urselves. Join the class and learn how to restore tightness, wetness and sweetness to your beautiful self. And hold your man tight.
*AJUZIE TRACY NMA Skincare Therapist…
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