When it comes to EMOTIONS, we are WEAKER than we think. You gat to be in his/her shoes, perhaps you’ll be less judgemental!
- He found out his wife cheated on him, yet he was willing to forgive. He just didn’t want to lose his woman. “I will give her another chance,” he shockingly told his friends.
- His hubby slept with her best friend. But you could not fathom why she was willing to forgive her hubby and do away with her bestie.
- His girlfriend told him it was over between them and he started losing weight.
- His boyfriend told her he had found another babe, she started losing appetite and totally lost concentration at work.
- She so much loves her boss despite being married. She herself can’t explain the “stupid” attraction!
- She is the boss. He is the subordinate. He is married. She is a divorcee. But the emotional attachment to her is out of this world. To many of us, he is CRAZY!
We look at the MORALITY of their actions. Those affected look at the REALITY of their feelings.
The feelings are STUPID. They are IMMORAL. They are SOCIALLY and even RELIGIOUSLY INDEFENSIBLE.
Perhaps, we might have behaved even worse if we were in their shoes. We never know how weak we are EMOTIONALLY until someone steals that part of our heart that is so vulnerable.
And each person has. It takes one person to unlock it. And at times, it might be the WRONG person.
And while MORALISTS take us to the cleaners, we always wish they could UNDERSTAND.
But a very JUDGMENTAL society hardly understands.
At least, not in this part of the world.
Don’t know if I am making sense…
Source: Facebook